Hell yes, that's a good point about any joint finances. Get your own money where he can't touch it asap, boothros. And don't think for one second that you're not worthwhile; you are.
When the dust has settled and especially once you're safe (and have a new laptop, I guess)you could always see what you can put back together from any archives you've posted to, at least? Maybe put out a call on the forums too (for example, I've got copies of a couple of your stories downloaded from AO3 to my computer; now I know they're only the same as what's already on the archives, but I guess other people might have other stuff?)
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Date: 2017-03-07 10:18 pm (UTC)And don't think for one second that you're not worthwhile; you are.
When the dust has settled and especially once you're safe (and have a new laptop, I guess)you could always see what you can put back together from any archives you've posted to, at least? Maybe put out a call on the forums too (for example, I've got copies of a couple of your stories downloaded from AO3 to my computer; now I know they're only the same as what's already on the archives, but I guess other people might have other stuff?)