Just saw this - I was looking in the other place for updates but I understand you posting here instead. Everyone is giving you great advice - I'm just glad you are here and safe for now. You might feel paralysed, unable to make a move, but that's because of the shock and hurt and loss. Get some help and plan what to do next, that's really important. You have a right to stay in the house if you feel safe doing so - you have a real stake in it, as you have with absolutely everything you've built in your 9 years together. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise - and don't talk yourself down either. **hugs**
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Everyone is giving you great advice - I'm just glad you are here and safe for now. You might feel paralysed, unable to make a move, but that's because of the shock and hurt and loss. Get some help and plan what to do next, that's really important. You have a right to stay in the house if you feel safe doing so - you have a real stake in it, as you have with absolutely everything you've built in your 9 years together. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise - and don't talk yourself down either. **hugs**