I am speechless, this is beyond horrible. You're in the US, yes? I don't know what the exact legal situation would be, but if you're legally married (and even if you weren't) and the house is in both your names there is no way he can legally simply turf you out, not in a million years.
I do realise that you're not asking about legal stuff here and you undoubtedly know far far more about it than I do anyway, it's just that it's heartbreaking to read how much he is hurting you already and how much more it would hurt if he just got his way.
Forgive me, it must feel impossible when you are going through such a devastating time, but I beg you to get legal advice if you haven't already.
I am so sorry. What an appalling way to treat you.
The fact that you were so upset you did some damage to his car does not in any way detract from the fact that he destroyed your physical and intellectual property AND he physically assaulted you and endangered you by forcing you out of the house and forcing you to remain outside all night.
I hope you have support around you from family and friends to help you establish your rights and to get through this. You should have someone with you, he would not be so eager to commit assault in front of witnesses.
I hope so much that you are all right.